PS: I think that your “lizard brain” is capable of taking in much more than your conscious brain, so it seems that before you just do the opposite of whatever your gut is telling you to do, it might help to analyze what signals you might have been picking up on and whether your conscious self is making the “best” decision or you are just talking yourself into something. I have a lot of impulse issues and almost always look back and wish I had listened to my gut instead of throwing caution to the wind.

best…

She’s headed the other direction, but I know I’ll hate myself later if I don’t go talk to her.

So I do.”

Can you be of any help?

I have to agree with other posts, if she had wanted you in her room, she would have invited you up. She had already done some bold moves. Not saying she didn’t “want” you, but not at that time.

But, also thought I could offer you a line I heard from a friend of mine. After my friend had spent a nice evening with a fella she told him it was late and she was calling it a night. He then asked, “Are you going to let me share your pillow with you?”

Well, for any doubters….they are still together 7 years later….

Just a full disclosure warning to you, Niall, even when only looking for a only special moment, you can get caught up hook, line, and sinker. Happened to me….only wanted one moment of memorable pleasure. We have now been happily married for 4 years.

Keep the great posts coming please!!!!!

You have an admirable set of cojones in my opinion. I’m surprised to see that an alarming number of your readers appear not to respect or understand anyone’s choice to have casual sex. So to throw a cat amongst the pigeons, she might not have been able to contain herself so when you knocked it could have been an inconvenient time!

Eitherway, well done! I off to find out how it turned out!

I’ve only met one girl from the site. We met up twice actually, and it was a worthwhile experience. For that alone, I’m glad I signed up.

I won’t be renewing my membership though. Perhaps in other parts of the world it would be better, but in Dubai, India and Nepal, I’ve found that the vast majority of the profiles are either covers for escorts, or girls looking for a sugar daddy.